Saturday, March 15, 2008

Introducing. . .

Ellie Jean Yuanying (named for her special great- granddaddy, Gene)
Born: September 20, 2006 From: Yunnan Province, China


We are so excited to be on this journey again to a daughter who waits for us in China. Ellie's story begins quite differently than Lilly's. After living the miracle of Lilly's adoption and seeing God's fingerprints on so many aspects of our ordeal in China, David and I both knew that we would adopt a special needs child again from China. Quite frankly, how could we not? God had so clearly delivered us through probably the most difficult experience we had ever faced in our lives. We simply could not say "Thanks God for providing for our EVERY need, but we can't do that again so please find somebody else to take the next orphan." No, we both knew we would go back for another child, we just didn't know when. I really felt the pull on my heart to China during my friend Sharon's adoption trip last August. I knew then that there was another child waiting in China for us. I didn't know where she was or when I would find her, but I knew she was waiting.


Fast forward to October 15, this is the day that I first saw the beautiful face of Wu Yuan Ying. A lady posted on a Yahoo group (for families of SN children from China) that this little girl was listed with a small agency in Alabama and was still waiting for a family. As soon as I saw her face I said to myself "You might be Ellie!" David and I talked and prayed. We researched the agency, Children of the World, and found out that they are a wonderful Christian agency who does a tremendous amount of humanitarian work around the world. We researched cleft lip and palate. Initially David shared with me that he felt the timing was not right because he felt "something" was getting ready to happen to our family. On Friday, November 9, we had to give the agency an answer because another family had become interested in Ying Ying. We said YES and began paperwork the next day.

Sadly, on Monday, November 12, I was told that my grandfather had been diagnosed the Friday before with liver cancer. This was the "something" that David had felt was coming to our family. We tried to proceed with paperwork and attending Dr. visits with my grandfather. By Wednesday, I was an emotional wreck so David said we could not proceed with the adoption at this time. The other family accepted Ying Ying. I was elated for her and sad for us, but I also knew this must be the right decision as I am a nurse and my grandfather helped raise me so I knew I would be very involved in his care in the coming months.

Only God knew that Granddaddy would live just 3 1/2 weeks from his diagnosis. The aggressive cancer started in another area of his body and had spread to the liver. He died on December 5, 2007. We were distraught, but our life with 5 children continued. On December 10, the same lady posted again on the Yahoo group that Wu Yuan Ying was available again as the other family could not proceed with her adoption. Her file was to be returned to China the next week if a family did not come forward. David and I prayed for a week and decided on December 16 that God had given us a second chance to be her parents. Ying Ying was the rainbow after the storm for our family. God gives and He takes away. He took my grandfather earlier that any of us wanted, but He also gave us a new daughter. How good our God is.

7 comments:

Lauren said...

Thats so awesome. She is adorable :)

Cyndi said...

How exciting!!! She is precious and will love her new home with her forever family. Do you have any idea when you may travel??? Let me know your details.

Danny and Rebecca said...

WOW, I am so thankful for Ellie and for her wonderful family!! Can't wait to welcome her here!! Thanks for sharing your lives and love with your six children and with US!!!!

Bobby and Jennifer Barbee and family said...

The Barbee Bunch is thrilled for you !!!!! What an amazing story of God's amazing grace !
"Aunt Jen" for the Barbee family!!!!

Kate said...

How wonderful.
I was also DTC in October 05.
I brought my daughter home in July last year. She is from Kunming CWI in Yunnan. It is a beautiful place and we had a wonderful time there.
You found Ellie on my daughter's first birthday, from the same province!
Good luck and enjoy your journey,
Kate
Alice's proud Mummy

eastandwest said...

Congratulations. I met you several months ago at MUSC. We just got home with our little firecracker Moli two weeks ago. I am so excited to see that another child has found a forever family- especially since it is yours! I can't wait to follow your journey.

Tara
www.eastandwestkids.blogspot.com

Sharon said...

Jan and David, you KNOW how excited, happy and proud we are for all of you and Ellie! It has been a rollercoaster ride so far, so hopefully the rest of this journey is going to be smooooth sailing! We can't wait to see Ellie running around in your yard, riding in the Barbie Jeep, playing on the swing and just loving life! She is, indeed, your rainbow after the storm. What a blessing this child is going to be to your family....and our family, too! We love you all!

Hugs,
Sharon and The Millender Crew

(Marty, Sharon, Josh, (Kit), Kristen, (Cameron), Keith, Brice, Brinley, Bailey) and you thought YOU needed a bigger table! HA HA HA!!!